Bookshelf

Books that have meaningfully shaped how I think about work, systems, and life. Each one offered frameworks or insights that I still use regularly.

Cognitive Tools

Mental models and frameworks for how you think about challenges, decisions, and personal agency. These books reshape your fundamental approach to problems—from fixed to growth mindset, from avoiding obstacles to using them as fuel, from certainty-seeking to probabilistic thinking.

Mindset by Carol Dweck
Mindset
Carol Dweck
Fundamentally reframed abilities as developable rather than fixed. Essential for navigating cultural transitions where everything must be relearned.
The Obstacle Is the Way by Ryan Holiday
The Obstacle Is the Way
Ryan Holiday
Stoic framework for transforming difficulties into competitive advantages.
The Fountainhead by Ayn Rand
The Fountainhead
Ayn Rand
Reinforced the importance of maintaining creative integrity and individual vision despite social pressures. Particularly relevant when navigating between German systematic excellence and American individualism.
Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink & Leif Babin
Extreme Ownership
Jocko Willink & Leif Babin
Take responsibility for everything.
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
The Alchemist
Paulo Coelho
What is your personal legend?
The Café on the Edge of the World by John Strelecky
The Café on the Edge of the World
John Strelecky
Why are you here? exploration of meaning through various stages of life.
Thinking in Bets by Annie Duke
Thinking in Bets
Annie Duke
Transformed my decision-making by embracing uncertainty. Critical for operating in the ambiguous, fast-changing environment of tech companies.
Clear Thinking by Shane Parrish
Clear Thinking
Shane Parrish
Thinking of Positioning when making decisions.

Learning & Transitions

Strategies for rapid skill acquisition and navigating major life/career changes. These books provide practical frameworks for accelerating learning curves, finding optimal performance states, and making successful transitions into new roles or environments.

Ultralearning by Scott H. Young
Ultralearning
Scott H. Young
Meta-learning framework for rapidly acquiring hard skills. Focus on the applicable.
Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
Flow
Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
Taught optimal challenge-skill balance for peak performance. Essential for maintaining high performance during adaptation.
The First 90 Days by Michael Watkins
The First 90 Days
Michael Watkins
Systematic approach to transition leadership. Focused on early wins and relationship building. Its important to make a good first and lasting impression so you are positioned well to have an even bigger impact.

Communication

Cross-cultural communication, influence, and relationship building across different contexts. Essential for bridging the gap between direct/indirect cultures, understanding how to express needs effectively, and building trust across diverse communication styles.

Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg
Nonviolent Communication
Marshall Rosenberg
Provided a framework for expressing needs without triggering defensiveness.
The Culture Map by Erin Meyer
The Culture Map
Erin Meyer
Essential for understanding the communication gap between different cultures. Helped decode why my straightforward feedback was sometimes received poorly and taught me to adapt my communication while maintaining authenticity.
Achtung Baby by Sara Zaske
Achtung Baby
Sara Zaske
American mom's perspective on German parenting culture. Perfect complement to my Germany-to-Canada journey - provides outside perspective on German cultural values around independence, risk-taking, and systematic development that is in my background of obviousness.
Influence by Robert Cialdini
Influence
Robert Cialdini
Provided scientific foundation for understanding compliance across cultures. The seven principles operate differently in North America vs. Germany.
How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
How to Win Friends and Influence People
Dale Carnegie
Classic framework for building relationships and navigating social dynamics.

Team Dynamics

Understanding and optimizing how groups of people work together effectively. From dysfunction diagnosis to building networks of autonomous teams, these books reveal how to create psychological safety, shared purpose, and accountability in both professional and personal contexts.

The 3 Big Questions for a Frantic Family by Patrick Lencioni
The 3 Big Questions for a Frantic Family
Patrick Lencioni
Applies team dynamics principles to family systems. Useful for understanding how clarity of purpose, shared commitment, and accountability work - applicable to both family and organizational transitions.
The Three Signs of a Miserable Job by Patrick Lencioni
The Three Signs of a Miserable Job
Patrick Lencioni
Identifies anonymity, irrelevance, and immeasurement as core causes of workplace misery. Valuable for understanding what makes work fulfilling across different cultural contexts and designing roles that create engagement.
Team of Teams by General Stanley McChrystal
Team of Teams
General Stanley McChrystal
Revolutionary for understanding complex vs complicated systems. Helped me grasp how Shopify maintains agility while scaling - networks of autonomous teams rather than rigid hierarchies.

Leadership & Management

Systems thinking and organizational leverage for leading at scale. These books provide frameworks for understanding organizations as systems, identifying leverage points, creating commitment through language, and managing the inherent complexity of growing companies.

High Output Management by Andrew S. Grove
High Output Management
Andrew S. Grove
Intel CEO's systematic approach to management leverage. Grove's focus on identifying bottlenecks and optimizing information flow perfectly aligned with my systems thinking approach to organizational effectiveness.
Thinking in Systems by Donella H. Meadows
Thinking in Systems
Donella H. Meadows
The foundational text on systems thinking and leverage points. Essential reading for anyone focused on identifying where small changes create big impacts - directly applicable to systems optimization approach.
An Elegant Puzzle: Systems of Engineering Management by Will Larson
An Elegant Puzzle: Systems of Engineering Management
Will Larson
A practical guide to engineering management that treats organizations as systems to be debugged and optimized. Helped me make sense of what to expect from management.
The Hard Thing About Hard Things by Ben Horowitz
The Hard Thing About Hard Things
Ben Horowitz
Taught me that there's no formula for complex problems, only contextual judgment and transparent communication. No silver bullets, only lead bullets. Maybe shoot those first before taking aim with a canon ball.
Leadership Excellence by Chalmers Brothers & Vinay Kumar
Leadership Excellence
Chalmers Brothers & Vinay Kumar
Frameworks for building high-performance cultures. Part of an exec coaching program I went through. Highly valuable mental models.
Conversations For Action & Collected Essays by Fernando Flores
Conversations For Action & Collected Essays
Fernando Flores
Frameworks for understanding how language creates commitment and coordination in organizations. Flores' speech act theory provided practical tools for navigating between German explicit contract culture and North American implicit agreement styles - essential for building trust and delivering results. Part of an exec coaching program I went through. Highly valuable mental models.
The Fifth Discipline by Peter M. Senge
The Fifth Discipline
Peter M. Senge
Foundational text on learning organizations and systems thinking. Provided the intellectual framework for understanding how mental models shape organizational behavior - crucial for navigating cultural transitions and building adaptive teams.

Power, Politics & Systems

The deeper games being played in organizations and markets. Understanding finite vs infinite games, navigating political dynamics without formal authority, building antifragile systems, and recognizing how strategic thinking creates competitive advantages.

Finite and Infinite Games by James P. Carse
Finite and Infinite Games
James P. Carse
Distinction between playing to win vs. playing to keep playing. Transformed how I think about business strategy and building sustainable competitive advantages.
101 Things I Learned in Law School by Vibeke Norgaard Martin
101 Things I Learned in Law School
Vibeke Norgaard Martin
Legal thinking highlights how you can structure a series of finite games into an infinite game, which operates on a higher order.
The Prince by Niccolò Machiavelli
The Prince
Niccolò Machiavelli
Timeless insights into power dynamics and strategic positioning. Helped understand how to navigate organizational politics and influence without formal authority.
Antifragile by Nassim Nicholas Taleb
Antifragile
Nassim Nicholas Taleb
Extended Black Swan thinking to building systems that gain from disorder. Essential framework for designing resilient organizations and personal strategies.

Strategic Thinking

Frameworks for competitive positioning and sustainable advantage. From distinguishing good strategy from wishful thinking to understanding network effects, platform dynamics, and competitive moats—these books reveal how to identify and exploit strategic leverage points.

Good Strategy Bad Strategy by Richard Rumelt
Good Strategy Bad Strategy
Richard Rumelt
Distinguishes between real strategy (focused actions addressing specific challenges) and bad strategy (vague goals and wishful thinking). Essential for understanding how to identify actual leverage points versus busy work in complex organizations.
Wardley Maps by Simon Wardley
Wardley Maps
Simon Wardley
Visual framework for strategic planning through mapping the evolution of value chains. Essential for understanding competitive positioning and identifying where to build vs. buy vs. partner.
The Cold Start Problem by Andrew Chen
The Cold Start Problem
Andrew Chen
Critical for understanding network effects and platform dynamics. Plus how growth gets unlocked through layered products.
Zero to One by Peter Thiel
Zero to One
Peter Thiel
Challenged conventional thinking about competition. What makes people change is overwhelming value that cannot be easily replicated. Be 10x better.
7 Powers by Hamilton Helmer
7 Powers
Hamilton Helmer
Strategic frameworks for understanding competitive moats and positioning - essential for platform strategy and identifying sustainable advantages.

Historical Forces & System Evolution

Macro-level understanding of how civilizations, technologies, and societies evolve. These books provide perspective on the large-scale forces that shape human progress, from geographic determinism to technological disruption to collective reasoning challenges.

The Box by Marc Levinson
The Box
Marc Levinson
Chronicles how the standardized shipping container revolutionized global trade. The inventor doesn't necessarily accrue the spoils. Labor dynamics shaping outcomes.
Guns, Germs, and Steel by Jared Diamond
Guns, Germs, and Steel
Jared Diamond
Examines why Eurasian civilizations conquered others. Geographic and environmental factors—not racial superiority—determined societal development.
The World Until Yesterday by Jared Diamond
The World Until Yesterday
Jared Diamond
Compares traditional small-scale societies with modern state societies. We can learn valuable lessons from traditional practices while acknowledging the benefits of modernity.
The End Is Always Near by Dan Carlin
The End Is Always Near
Dan Carlin
Examines civilization-threatening events throughout history. We cannot judge the past through our current lens.
What's Our Problem? by Tim Urban
What's Our Problem?
Tim Urban
Systems-level analysis of why societies seem increasingly dysfunctional despite technological progress. Framework for elevating collective reasoning.

Language, Perception & Control

How language, narrative, and design shape reality and behavior. From understanding quality and emotional construction to recognizing how power operates through information control and platform design—these books reveal the mechanisms of influence and perception.

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert Pirsig
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
Robert Pirsig
What is quality anyway? Pair it with how emotions are made.
How Emotions Are Made by Lisa Feldman Barrett
How Emotions Are Made
Lisa Feldman Barrett
Emotions are mental models, highly subjective and can be learned. Concepts are geared towards a goal.
Words That Work by Frank Luntz
Words That Work
Frank Luntz
Taught me how to use language strategically and helped understand why positioning matters.
1984 by George Orwell
1984
George Orwell
How power operates through information control. Shaping reality through force.
Brave New World by Aldous Huxley
Brave New World
Aldous Huxley
Control through pleasure and distraction. Essential for understanding how platform design shapes user behavior. Shaping reality through group pressure.
Snow Crash by Neal Stephenson
Snow Crash
Neal Stephenson
A cyberpunk novel set in a near-future America where the federal government has largely collapsed and corporations run sovereign territories.

Product

Practical frameworks for building products customers actually want. From continuous discovery habits to positioning that resonates to revolutionary approaches to product development cycles—essential for translating strategy into customer value.

Continuous Discovery Habits by Teresa Torres
Continuous Discovery Habits
Teresa Torres
How to approach product discovery in a repeated way.
Obviously Awesome by April Dunford
Obviously Awesome
April Dunford
Definitive guide to product positioning that customers actually understand. Critical for platform companies where clear value propositions determine adoption rates.
Shape Up by Ryan Singer
Shape Up
Ryan Singer
A radical rethinking of how to run product development teams, based on Basecamp's methodology. Six-week cycles with shaped work and autonomous teams.

Technical Excellence & Operations

The craft and science of building resilient, high-performing technical systems. From production-ready software patterns to performance optimization to DevOps culture—these books bridge the gap between elegant code and operational reality at scale.

Release It! by Michael T. Nygard
Release It!
Michael T. Nygard
Design and deploy production-ready software with patterns for stability and resilience. Essential for understanding how to build systems that survive real-world conditions.
Game Engine Black Book: Wolfenstein 3D by Fabien Sanglard
Game Engine Black Book: Wolfenstein 3D
Fabien Sanglard
Deep technical analysis of groundbreaking game engine architecture. Demonstrates how what we optimize for shifts over time based on the ground shifting.
99 Bottles of OOP by Sandi Metz & Katrina Owen
99 Bottles of OOP
Sandi Metz & Katrina Owen
Object-oriented design principles through refactoring exercises. To make it simpler you have to first increase the complexity. Don't forget to finish the execution.
The Phoenix Project by Gene Kim, Kevin Behr, George Spafford
The Phoenix Project
Gene Kim, Kevin Behr, George Spafford
Introduced DevOps culture and systems thinking essential for understanding how modern tech companies operate.
Accelerate by Nicole Forsgren, Jez Humble, and Gene Kim
Accelerate
Nicole Forsgren, Jez Humble, and Gene Kim
A data-driven investigation into what actually makes technology organizations high-performing.
Ruby Performance Optimization by Alexander Dymo
Ruby Performance Optimization
Alexander Dymo
Deep dive into Ruby performance bottlenecks and solutions. Technical complement to systems thinking - shows how to identify and eliminate constraints at the code level. To make it fast it isn't going to be pretty, but it will work. Know when to optimize for what.